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Thursday, 21 January 2016
Are You A Foster Kid?
Topic: Think about your future
Sometimes youngsters are put in foster care if the alcoholism and other addictions are too extreme at home. There comes a point when you "age out" of the system. That can be tough especially if you had a poor relationship with your foster family. Often though if the relationship was good you can visit and get advice from them. I was talking to a young adult who was in foster care. She is studying to be a nurse, is married and has also a baby in need of foster care in her home. She told me that she was not happy when she was in foster care but she made up her mind that she, as a human being, deserves a good life and that she was going to make it happen. What I do want to tell you is that there are now colleges and other learning institutes that provide services to graduates of foster care. They listen to your complaints, needs and give you the opportunity to hang out with other students who were in foster care. To read all about it go to or copy and paste it into your computer:  https://www.nacada.ksu.edu/Resources/Academic-Advising-Today/View-Articles/Foster-Care-Alumni-on-Campus-Supporting-an-At-Risk-First-Generation-Student-Population.aspx

Posted by answersforteens at 3:01 PM EST
Updated: Thursday, 21 January 2016 3:23 PM EST
Saturday, 12 December 2015
HAPPY NEW YEAR
Topic: Make a resolution
Here is an unusual resolution but an important one. Make a resolution to get enough sleep this year.  A good night's sleep promotes good health, enables you to think well, helps you to recuperate from stressful situations, and even makes you look better. Have trouble falling asleep? It's important to relax before going to bed. Watch a TV show that makes you laugh. Read a novel whose main character you admire. Have a cup of relaxing tea - be sure that it is decaf. Chamomile is a tea that relaxes you. And when the lights are out think of 3 positive things about yourself and about your life.

Posted by answersforteens at 4:27 PM EST
Tuesday, 17 November 2015
HERE WE GO AGAIN
Topic: The holidays are here again

Yes, holidays can be difficult. Gatherings can include too much drinking or using drugs. We have talked about this before. It's important to discuss this again and again.

1. Value your health and don't get involved with drinking and drugging.

2. Plan where you can go if things get out of hand at home. A good friend? A relative?

3. If you leave the house leave a note in your room preferably taped to a wall so that it can't blow away where you are staying. 

4. If you are at home and things are out of hand at home don't be afraid to phone 911. 

5. Holidays are a good time to attend AA, Al-Anon, Alateen. You are a young adult so if there is no Alateen near you go to Al-Anon or AA. 

6. If you don't have Wi Fi at home go to the library and sign in on one of their computers and touch base with Alateen, In The Rooms and some of the other organizations we have mentioned.

7.Plan some fun activities for yourself. Do it through your church, athletic leagues, - make sure you belong to a caring group.


Posted by answersforteens at 5:10 PM EST
Tuesday, 6 October 2015
Bullies, Bullies
Topic: Lets get rid of them

Bullies are a pain in the ass, a nuisance. Unfortunately they exist. Deep down they are insecure cowards. Everytime they pick on someone they feel strong. 

Here are some things you can do if you feel picked on. Discuss it with your school counselor. If that's not possible because your school does not have a counselor make it your business to make friends with other schoolmates who feel picked on. Do things together, eat lunch together and if one of you has trouble with his/her school work help each other. 

The important issue is to not take seriously their insults. Feel overwhelmed by their comments? Then go to http://www.healingwalls.org/guest-blog-central-submissions/ 

Healingwalls let you hear how others who have suffered because of bullying, and, yes, because of addicts and addiction, have coped. You can vent your story, your situation.

Three cheers for http://www.healingwalls.org/guest-blog-central-submissions/

Visit them.  As always, you are really not alone.

 

 

 


Posted by answersforteens at 5:59 PM EDT
Updated: Tuesday, 6 October 2015 6:10 PM EDT
Sunday, 6 September 2015
HANG IN THERE
Topic: Share what you know

When you live with an adult or adults who suffer from addiction life can be tough. It is important to remember you are not alone. Feeling anxious or depressed may not mean that you are the one having mental problems. It may just be your very being telling you that you are overwhelmed with what's going on in your home. See how others feel. Share your concerns with community@themighty.com.

Listen also to what others are going through. Whatever you do don't self-diagnose yourself. Again, remember feeling anxious or depressed may just be a warning sign that life is at the moment too tough. Seek a group like Alateen. The good news is if you don't have a group near your home you can do it on line at al-anon.org/electronic-meetings This web site will not only lead you to the online Alateen groups but will, if you prefer, tell you how to join a group over the telephone.The important thing is if you feel rotten don't just take it do something. Join a group. Such action will calm your anxiety and depression because it will show you that you are not helpless.

 


Posted by answersforteens at 3:51 PM EDT
Friday, 21 August 2015
ANOTHER SCHOOL YEAR
Topic: Do your best

We start a new school year with a lot of hope. Some of us are discouraged because we may have had a bad year last year. Here is what may help.

1. Make a list of all you hope to achieve - better marks, furthering your education after high school, making more friends, trying out for some sports

2. Look at the list you have made and make another list of how you are going to make it work. Be realistic. Feel free to  check out what help is available.

3. If your school does not have the type of extra help you need such as a counselor or after school help with your homework then check out what facilities are available outside of your school. Alateen? In the rooms? the Y? the library? your church.

You can do it. 


Posted by answersforteens at 3:44 PM EDT
Wednesday, 8 July 2015
Say no to bullying
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Posted by answersforteens at 9:47 AM EDT
Saturday, 4 July 2015
Think positive
July is a tough month because many people suffering with addiction will use the holiday atmosphere to drink too much. Take care of yourselves. Visit Alateen. And remember this: "Change your thoughts and you change your world." - Norman Vincent Peale 

Posted by answersforteens at 7:41 PM EDT
Tuesday, 12 May 2015
Lets Talk About Pregnancy
Topic: Yes, it's important

You're a teenager and you are pregnant. There is much to think about such as are you keeping the baby or giving the baby up for adoption, will you continue your education, does the Father care, who is there to help you, how will you support your family and are you maintaining your and the baby's health.

For starters lets discuss health. If you are confused as to where to get medical help or don't have insurance find the nearest Planned Parenthood. They will have answers to all your questions.  If you don't have a computer at home go to your library and use theirs. Just google Planned Parenthood. It's important to get information from a reliable source.

A word about addiction and pregnancy: whatever you take the baby you are carrying will also take. That means whatever you put in your mouth or inject will effect your baby's brain, health and general development. If you have a problem get help. Go to Alcoholics Anonymous, tell your physician. Physicians are trained to deal with addiction. The physician is there for you.  


Posted by answersforteens at 4:12 PM EDT
Friday, 10 April 2015
TALK, TALK & TALK
Topic: You've got to visit this
You know how I am always saying teens who have trouble at home need to reach out to others so that they can share their difficulties. Someone was listening. Go to 7 CUPS OF TEA on line. They are there for you 24 hours and the real beauty of this site is that not only is it anonymous but you can search for a therapist/adviser who specializes in your particular type of problem. So if there is addiction at home ask for a specialist in addiction. If incest is going on ask for that specialist. They'll know how to help you. Let you know where you can go for further help. Or just talk and talk. Remember it is anonymous. 7 CUPS OF TEA describes itself as: "Anyone who needs to vent or talk about whatever is on their mind can quickly reach out to a trained, compassionate active listener through our network for anonymous chat. We have hundreds of listeners who come from all walks of life and have diverse experiences. Whatever obstacles life may throw your way - whether it's depression, anxiety, breakup advice, relationship problems, or any others, 7 Cups of Tea has someone for you to talk to."

Posted by answersforteens at 2:59 PM EDT

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