Some Thoughts About School
Mood:  a-ok
Topic: What Do You Think

Every September when school starts instead of giving a lot of advice I like to say the following (hope it helps):

It's that time of year again - school. Some of you like your studies and some of you don't. Some of you are happy at home and some of you are not. One good thing to do is to keep a journal. Don't write your thoughts on line but in a book with a good old fashioned ball point pen or pencil. Write your thoughts, your ideas, your feelings, your plans, your dreams, your questions, and descriptions. And, then hide your journal. Let it be your private, intimate journal. Let the journal be your hang out for all your feelings. The journal is your private place and only your place. And, if you are having trouble with your school work remember to look up www.khanacademy.org/  these instructors make most subjects easy. Their graphs are terrific.

More About Recovery Month
Mood:  bright
Topic: think TV
As you know September is Recovery Month and there is much you can do. If you go to SAMHSA web site you will note  that they have movies that they will let your local TV station show. Get in touch with your local TV station and urge them to have a program on recovery. Study the station's programs and decide where a program on recovery would fit. Talk programs are always looking for ideas. You can do it.

Think positive
Mood:  happy
Topic: Recovery Month
An Important Message from SAMHSA

National Recovery Month (Recovery Month) (www.recoverymonth.gov) is a national observance that educates Americans on the fact that addiction treatment and mental health services can enable those with a mental and/or substance use disorder to live a healthy and rewarding life. The observance’s main focus is to laud the gains made by those in recovery from these conditions, just as we would those who are managing other health conditions such as hypertension, diabetes, asthma, and heart disease. Recovery Month spreads the positive message that behavioral health is essential to overall health, prevention works, treatment is effective, and people can and do recover.

Recovery Month , now in its 23rd year, highlights individuals who have reclaimed their lives and are living happy and healthy lives in long-term recovery and also honors the prevention, treatment, and recovery service providers who make recovery possible. Recovery Month promotes the message that recovery in all its forms is possible, and also encourages citizens to take action to help expand and improve the availability of effective prevention, treatment, and recovery services for those in need.

Celebrated during the month of September, Recovery Month began in 1989 as TreatmentWorks! Month, which honored the work of the treatment and recovery professionals in the field. The observance evolved to National Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery Month (Recovery Month) in 1998, when the observance expanded to include celebrating the accomplishment of individuals in recovery from substance use disorders. The observance evolved once again in 2011 to National Recovery Month (Recovery Month) to include all aspects of behavioral health.

Each September, thousands of prevention, treatment, and recovery programs and services around the country celebrate their successes and share them with their neighbors, friends, and colleagues in an effort to educate the public about recovery, how it works, for whom, and why. There are millions of Americans whose lives have been transformed through recovery. These successes often go unnoticed by the broader population; therefore, Recovery Month provides a vehicle to celebrate these accomplishments.

The 2012 Recovery Month observance emphasizes that while the road to recovery may be difficult, the benefits of preventing and overcoming behavioral health conditions are significant and valuable to individuals, families, and communities. Recovery Month, officially celebrated each September, has become a year-round initiative that supports educational outreach and celebratory events throughout the year.

Currently, 140 Federal, State and local government entities, as well as non-profit organizations and associations affiliated with prevention, treatment, and recovery of mental and substance use disorders, comprise the Recovery Month Planning Partners’ group. The Planning Partners assist in the development, dissemination and collaboration of materials, promotion and event sponsorship for the Recovery Month initiative.

Materials produced for the Recovery Month observance include print, web, television, radio and social media tools. These resources help local communities reach out and encourage individuals in need of services, and their friends and families, to seek treatment and recovery services and information. Materials provide multiple resources including SAMHSA’s National Helpline - 1-800-662 HELP (4357) for information and treatment referral and SAMHSA's Treatment information at http://www.samhsa.gov/.

May be yes?
Mood:  cool

If you know someone struggling with addiction you might be interested in this bit of information. Here is the info:

Doron Ofir Casting, (Millionaire Matchmaker, My Strange Addiction, Jersey Shore) officially confirms and announces for the first time ever, real people struggling with addiction will have the opportunity to take part in a revolutionary and groundbreaking documentary series chronicling the emotional and physical struggles of addiction—“REHAB with DR. DREW”.

Participants will be given a once in a lifetime opportunity to enroll in a no-cost, 30-day treatment program to begin the process of breaking free from the bonds of addiction and take their first steps down the road to recovery.
VH1, in association with Irwin Entertainment and Doron Ofir Casting, is currently searching for those struggling with substance addiction but not ready to give up hope.

“If you are ready to fight to take your life back into your own hands, I’m hoping to find you! Instead of giving in, make a change and seek the help you need. I want your story and why you need the help. Your story can be someone else’s hope.” Doron Ofir, Executive Casting Director

Realize that recovery can become your reality.

If you are dealing with the disease of addiction and are ready to transform your life, this exclusive opportunity is a chance to seek the help you’ve always needed.

Please apply online at http://www.rehabcasting.com

 

DENIAL, DENIAL AND MORE DENIAL
Topic: Think - intervention

I talk a lot about denial because once denial about one's addiction has been conquered healing can take place. Denial is the biggest reason people do not give up addiction. Denial was first connoted by the man often called the father of psychiatry, Sigmund Freud. I actually looked up denial on Wikepedia which defines denial (also called abnegation) <as> “a defense mechanism in which a person is faced with a fact that is too uncomfortable to accept and rejects it instead, insisting that it is not true despite what may be overwhelming evidence.”

What I really found interesting is that Wikepedia defines 3 types of denial:

• simple denial: deny the reality of the unpleasant fact altogether
• minisisation: admit the fact but deny its seriousness (a combination of denial and rationalization)
• projection: admit both the fact and seriousness but deny responsibility by blaming somebody or something else.
  

The best way to break through the denial is to have an intervention. Seek out a professional who works with people suffering from addiction. Go to The National Intervention for Drugs and Alcohol (NIDA) to seek out someone in your area. (866) 665-5197  Good Luck.

More About Summer Jobs
Mood:  bright
Topic: Good Advice

I received the enclosed press release and since it had some good advice I thought I would share it with you.

 As businesses start to hire teenagers for the summer, customer service strategist John Tschohl, author of the book Achieving Excellence Through Customer Service, offers these tips to help your new part-time employees offers great customer service:

 -       Feel good about yourself

We tend to live in a negative world and to think negatively. It’s critical that you feel good about yourself, that you are confident, enthusiastic, and positive. Each of us is responsible for how we feel about ourselves. You must believe in yourself, concentrate on your strengths, and recognize the importance of your role. Use affirmations and visualization. Read books on self-improvement and strive to be the best you can be. See yourself as you can be, not as you are.

 -       Be courteous

It takes no more time to be nice and polite than it does to be rude. Every customer wants to feel important to you and your organization. Treat them with courtesy and respect. When you do, they will return to you time and time again.

 -       Give positive communication

Smile, call customers by name, and give specific, genuine, sincere, and timely feedback. When you communicate positively, you form a connection with the customer that says, ‘I am pleased that you patronize my organization, I value you, and I am here to ensure your needs are met."

 -       Perform for the customer

Customers have the right to demand performance. They aren’t interested in your problems and excuses; they want you to take care of them. You can be polite and courteous but, if you don’t do what you say you will do, you will not meet the standards of good customer service. If you say you’ll call a customer on Tuesday, do it. If you say you’ll ship the product on Friday, do it.  Do what you say you will do—and do it with speed and accuracy. If you ship a product when you say you will, but you ship the wrong product, you’ve taken a giant step backward.

-       Listen carefully

Few employees do this well.  If you don’t listen to what the customer is telling you, you cannot give that customer what he needs. Listen to the customer, then clarify what he has said by repeating it.  For example: “Ted, let me repeat what you said so I’m sure I’m on the right track.”  Ask questions, get involved, and show that you care.

 -       Learn and grow in your job

If a customer asks you to explain the difference between product A and product B, she’s asking you to provide more than the difference in price. Study your organization’s products and services—as well as those of your competitors—so that you can provide your customers with the information they need to make a purchase decision.

Tough Time At Home?
Mood:  down
Topic: Don't give up - think positive
By chance I was talking to a teen who said that when his parents drink they talk abusively. He said he usually goes in his room and locks the door. He also said he feels lonely. He is too embarrassed to text his friends. Solution: Get on the Alateen Facebook and pour your heart out. You can confide anything. You'll probably inspire others to tell their stories. Never heard of Alateen? Just in case here is a brief definition that Alateen has on its web site: "Alateen meetings are where teens can find support and understanding from people their own age who are going through similar difficulties."  Check them out. Alateen has a great web site.

WHAT TO DO THIS SUMMER?
Mood:  a-ok
Topic: JOBS, INTERNSHIPS, VOLUNTEERING
School will be out soon and if you have not planned anything for the summer don't give up. Go on the Internet and type in Internships and your location. Do the same for Volunteer Work. An excellent place to go for jobs, if you need money, is your nearest OFFICE TEMP. Summer is a great time to get away from home and some camps need last minute counselors or counselors in training. Get in touch with www.campjobs.com, www.mysummers.com  or you might get in touch with your local church and Y. Remember no matter how difficult your relationship is with your parents discuss with them any plans that require you to spend your summer away from home. You know the deal: discuss it with your parents when they are free of drugs or in between drinking and drugging. To make sure that everyone is clear where you will be leave your address and phone number pinned to your pillow. Inform as well those your parents are close to, perhaps an Uncle or Aunt.

ONE TEEN STORY
Mood:  a-ok
Topic: FOR THOSE WHO LIKE TO WRITE
 Yes. One Teen Story is offering $500 and 25 contributer copies for first North American serial rights. All rights will revert to the author upon publication.
    Does One Teen Story accept simultaneous submissions?

    Yes, but please notify us immediately if your submission is accepted for publication elsewhere.
    Does One Teen Story accept stories translated from other languages?

    Yes, however, all manuscripts must be written in English. Translations are accepted, but we may ask to see a copy of the original text.
    How do I submit to One Teen Story?

    We have an automated system for you to send us your work. It will securely send our editors your story and email you a confirmation that it has been received. To use the automated system, you need to create a One Teen Story account. Using this account you will be able to check the status of your submission at any time by going to our login page.

    When you are ready to submit please visit our Submission Manager.
    What file types can I submit?

    One Teen Story does not accept paper submissions. All paper submissions will be recycled upon receipt.

    Please only submit Rich Text Format (.RTF) files. Most word processing applications allow you to “save as” an RTF file. Please also make sure that your filename ends with the .RTF extension (for example: mystory.rtf).

    Please note that submitted files cannot exceed 500 KB.

    Please include the story title and all writer contact info on the first page of the submitted file.
    How soon can I expect to hear about my submission?

    We do our very best to respond to submissions 16 weeks after they are received. If you don’t hear from us right away, please be patient! It is our goal to make sure that each submission is read carefully. We ask that you wait a minimum of six months to send follow-up inquiries. Please send all inquiries by email to editors@oneteenstory.com and include the phrase “Submissions inquiry” in your subject line.

    If you have any other questions, please email us at editors@oneteenstory.com.

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Three months later
Mood:  a-ok
Now Playing: Resolutions
Topic: Something to consider
Hello, it's hard to believe that new year's was a long time ago. Some of us made resolutions. Did we succeed in keeping them? I have a theory about new year resolutions. They are more like a wish list. I wish I could get better grades. I wish my parent would stop drinking. So on new year's eve we say full of hope I am going to get better grades. I am going to see what I can do about my parent's drinking. But it is not as easy as that. What we need to say is "What do I need to do inorder to get better grades? And, how am I realistically going to accomplish that?" Or, for the parent's drinking one needs to ask, "What can I do to help myself? What organizations should I join? Where can I get advice to find out what I can say to my parent to make him or her realize how sick he/she is?" Nothing is easy in life. Most wishes are doable if we think them through. That's the tough part.